reflexive pronouns
The reflexive pronouns are:
Singular: myself - yourself - himself - herself - itselfPlural: ourselves - yourselves - themselves
When we use a reflexive pronoun
We use a reflexive pronoun:
• as a direct object when the object is the same as the subject of the verb:
I am teaching myself to play the piano.
Be careful with that knife. You might cut yourself.
We can use a reflexive pronoun as direct object with most transitive verbs, but these are the most common:
amuse blame cut dry enjoy helphurt introduce kill prepare satisfy teach
Some verbs change their meaning slightly when they have a reflexive pronoun as direct object:
- Would you like to help yourself to another drink?
= Would you like to take another drink. - I wish the children would behave themselves.
= I wish the children would behave well. - He found himself lying by the side of the road.
= He was surprised when he realised that he was at the side of the road. - I saw myself as a famous actor.
= I imagined that I was a famous actor. - She applied herself to the job of mending the lights.
= She worked very hard to mend the lights. - He busied himself in the kitchen.
= He worked busily in the kitchen. - I had to content myself with a few Euros.
= I had to be satisfied with a few Euros.
We do not use a reflexive pronoun after verbs which describe things people usually do for themselves, such as wash, shave, dress:
He washed [himself] in cold water.
He always shaved [himself] before going out in the evening.
Michael dressed [himself] and got ready for the party.
We only use reflexives with these verbs for emphasis:
He dressed himself in spite of his injuries.
She’s old enough to wash herself.
• as indirect object when the indirect object is the same as the subject of the verb:
Would you like to pour yourself a drink.
We’ve brought ourselves something to eat.
• as the object of a preposition when the object refers to the subject of the clause:
They had to cook for themselves.
He was feeling very sorry for himself.
But we use personal pronouns, not reflexives, after prepositions of place...
He had a suitcase beside him.
and after with when it means "accompanied by":
She had a few friends with her.
We use a reflexive with the preposition by...
• when we want to show that someone did something alone and/or without any help:
He lived by himself in an enormous house.
She walked home by herself.
The children got dressed by themselves.
I prepared the whole meal by myself.
• to emphasise the person or thing we are referring to:
Kendal itself is quite a small town.
especially if we are talking about someone very famous:
Sir Paul McCartney himself sang the final song.
We often put the reflexive pronoun at the end of the clause when we are using it for emphasis:
I baked the bread myself.
She mended the car herself
Activities
Choose the correct reflexive pronouns to complete the sentences Decide if the sentences are correct or incorrect
Comments
Oh my God 56 out of 56 in reflexive pronouns.
Say something.
But could you tell me the difference between by yourself & for yourself?
Hello there :) Let's see:
You can go to school by yourself [that means you're doing it alone]
and
You can make a pie for yourself [you're the only one that will enjoy it].
By yourself = refers to the action itself, the way you're doing it
For yourself = refers to the results
Hope this will be useful :-)
Hello
Can we not use the preposition by in final two examples of the reading material?
Hello samc,
Could you just clarify - do you mean the examples I baked the bread myself and She mended the car herself?
If so, I would say that adding by is okay in these circumstances, although it could be considered unnecessary.
If you don't mean to refer to these examples, please let me know.
Regards,
Stephen Jones
The LearnEnglish Team
Good morning Adam
I was wondering, why isn't the reflexive pronoun “oneself” here?.
Thank you.
Good evening! I want to know that why there is "was" in the last question of the second exercise instead of "were". I think it must have been "were" because of object is "stars". Let me explain it. I'm little bit confused. I'm not sure if it's my right or not. I'm just starting English by myself :)
hore!! finally, i can answer the tasks correctly.. big smile :D
I see trouble too. :((
dear,
in question 8 "Ladies and gentlemen. There's masses of food, so please help "
why we used "there is" instead of "there were" as "masses of food" is plural ?
regards